Everything about it is sexy. But then again, there are also porn genres about real estate agents getting frisky , and people in creepy animal costumes i. And when you think about it, it's not difficult to figure out that running your hands all over your girlfriend's naked body is probably going to lead to sex, which is why I spoke to tantric massage expert Candice Leigh, who recently taught an entire workshop on erotic massages at New York's naughty club NSFW , about how to execute the perfect sensual massage that will definitely lead to sex.
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1) Setting the mood
If you want to give a woman the night of her life and turn her into a blissed-out puddle of mush that will be talking to her friends about you for weeks afterward , then look no further than the sensual massage. Everybody likes sex, but the dynamic of a sensual massage is something entirely different. Most women tend to be sensitive to ambience and context. In order for her to be able to completely relax internally, the outer environment has to be conducive to her relaxation. Coconut oil is my personal favourite. Put a few tablespoons in a dish on the bedside table. Bonus points if you add a few drops of essential oil to create your own custom infusion. If the oil is room temperature or less, rub your hands together vigorously for seconds before putting them on her skin.
2) Use erotic oils or lotions.
There are regular massages , which most folks find relaxing, and then there are erotic massages, which can be downright life-changing. Erotic messages are similar to regular ones, except they're aimed at releasing tension and decreasing stress in the recipient by either enhancing or achieving sexual arousal. When done poorly, an erotic massage can painful—literally and figuratively. I once had a man massage the sides of my belly, one of the few places where I have no muscles or tendons. It felt like he was typing on my back. After all, they have their full ass in front of you, so you need to give them a full-assed massage.
What do you think when you think of massage? Slow music, gentle hands, comfort and relaxation? We could go really deep into this and read about 80 massage therapy styles along with a wide variety of pressures, movements and techniques.